Morning Routines Made Easy

Morning routines are frequently a source of great frustration.

Many parents are in a position where it feels like they are working harder and harder at getting their children up and out every single day.  When kids are supposed to be becoming more independent, parents are feeling like their kids are becoming more “dependent” on Mom or Dad to get them out of bed, dressed and off to school.

DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?

“By the time the kids are out the door in the morning, I feel like I am ready to scream.  The constant fighting over getting out of bed, getting them dressed and ready for school is driving me crazy.  I feel like my day is ruined before I get started.  I hate starting our days this way."  

So what is the solution?

First, let’s be clear.  Kids are wired differently.  Some kids seem to embrace structure and routine without complaint or resistance.  Other kids seem to resist and fight against such consistency and structure.

Having said that, it does not mean that you surrender to this morning chaos.  It instead means that you have to become more skillful, more refined, more powerful in your parenting.

In the Morning Routines Made Easy program, I walk you through a specific plan that gets the mornings under control.  No longer will there be a need for yelling, screaming, battling, pushing, nagging, prodding, or struggling with your kids over getting out of bed or getting dressed and off to school. How do I know that this will work for your kids?  In reality, I don’t!   But I do know that it has worked for 98% of the families that have tried this approach. This simple plan is so effective BECAUSE I teach you how to begin to use your parental influence - your parental power - in ways that teach your children how to function within specific routines.

What do you get in this program?

• You learn about how to talk to your kids so that they are prepared for the changes that are going to occur. 
• You learn how to establish a structure that gives you leverage. 
• You learn to stop nagging pushing and prodding, and discover there is a different way. 
• You start investing your energy in what you do want, rather than what you don’t want. 
• You’ll find out how you can nurture dependent, rather than independent behavior. 
• You discover how to respond during the learning phase, so you don’t get sucked in. 
• You learn to make kids responsible for their morning readiness, not you! 
• You learn to establish a plan that virtually ensures that the kids are on track in a matter of weeks.

Let me guess.  Some of you may be thinking...

“I am afraid that my kids will never get up or get dressed if I stop pushing or prodding them.  I am afraid that if I pull away, nothing will happen, and their world will fall apart.” 

THAT’S NOT TRUE.  IT'S JUST NOT TRUE!

This is the fear that many parents have as they begin to think about how to change the morning routine.  They fear that pulling away from all of the effort and energy will result in a child who simply stops doing anything.

I find that this is not the case.  I find that this is not the case, over, and over, and over, and over again.   Why? 

It is quite simple!  If you begin to study these materials, you will grow to understand that one of the key fundamentals to having more influence as a parent is to notice what gets your attention; what consistently gets your energy; what consistently you notice and engage!  This points us in the direction of the first step we must take to turn things around. 

Where am I going with this? 

• Notice that when your children are not getting dressed, what gets your attention?
• Notice that when the kids are lolly-gagging around, what do you notice?
• Notice what happens when your son seems to be taking ten minutes to put on his socks, what do you do?
• Notice when your daughter helplessly complains over and over that she doesn’t have a clean shirt to wear, what do you engage?

What is getting repeatedly and consistently noticed?  The NOT DOING is getting much of our energy in these situations!  This is what we must change...to turn things around.

So here's the trap we must come to understand - fully understand and eventually get out of:  The trap is that the NOT GETTING READY is unwanted behavior that consistently and repeatedly pulls us in.  The more we get pulled into it, the more we end up giving our energy and attention to what we don’t want - thus making it impossible for us to get more of what we do want.

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In the “Morning Routines Made Easy” program, you’ll learn specifically how to turn this around.  You will get a plan that details exactly what you need to do, to make sure that your children start changing their behavior.

In addition, this is a program that leaves nothing to chance.  I’ll tell you exactly what to say to your kids and when to say it.  I’ll describe a detailed and specific plan that explains exactly how to relate that to your children. 

Most importantly, I make sure that you will have a clear understanding that this is a learning process.  This is not a “fix it now” program.  What do I mean by that?

It means that you won’t listen to this program and everything will be perfect tomorrow.

Instead, it means that you’ll listen to the program, and you’ll implement the plan tomorrow.  Positive changes will start to occur tomorrow.  Although, as you implement changes, certain things may even get worse for a few days (I’ll explain how to handle that). 

But then, within several days to a week, you begin to notice that things start to improve.  The mornings become calmer.  The kids begin to follow the routine.  You begin to have a sense of what you need to do in order to support that routine.

By the end of the second week, you’ll notice that mornings move smoothly.  Your kids are becoming more comfortable taking care of their own responsibilities.  You’ll feel better.  They’ll feel better.  Life is calmer and more peaceful.

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But guess what, there is still more! Since I know it's 100% to your benefit to act right away, I want to sweeten the pot and give you every possible reason to decide now you want this program!

So, if you act immediately you will also receive the following amazing free bonuses:

Bonus #1:  Free access to email me (Dr. Randy Cale) directly with questions for 30 days!  In the event you have any questions, you can email me…and I will answer your questions. For any direct consultation, the charge would be three times the cost of the program! This is a $150.00 value FREE! You must go through the program carefully…so that we can both be on the same page…but I will respond…at NO CHARGE!

Bonus #2:  DVD introduction to the Terrific Parenting Principles (valued at $29.95!) In this 18 minute recording, I walk you through the principles that I use to help thousands of families with every imaginable behavioral concern. Granted…it’s not my full parenting program, but I do give you an overview of the core principles that allow your adjustments at home to evoke life changing responses from your children. (I sell this introductory DVD at workshops for $29.95…and I give it to you free!)

Bonus #3: CD copy of Think Positive (worth $59.00) - a personal motivation CD designed to help parents remain positive, feeling enthusiastic and remain focused on personal and family goals.  (I sell this introductory CD at workshops for $59.00…and I give it to you free!)

The total cost of this package is:  $297  Yours today $67

In the Morning Routines Made Easy program, I provide you with a complete solution to your morning routine problems. For less than the cost of your cable bill, you can transform your home...and bring relief to your family today! Wouldn’t it be wonderful to just relax about this?

My 100% Iron Clad Guarantee I WANT TO MAKE IT EASY FOR YOU. NO RISK GUARANTEE!  Even if you are skeptical, you can't lose with my Terrific Parenting 100%, ironclad, money back guarantee: I am so confident that you will be satisfied that you can simple return the product for any reason in the next 365 days, and you get your money back.  I will take all the risk here. The only chance you are taking is the chance for a healthy home, with fewer battles and more peaceful family life. Test the program for yourself... Implement the plan, and follow the clear directions. Once you've used these strategies in your own home, I'm confident you'll NEVER want to send it back! But, if you aren't satisfied for any reason, or it doesn't live up to your expectations, you won't be out one red cent.  Just return the course and we'll refund your entire payment. It's that simple.  It's risk free, so why not take this opportunity to find a peaceful way out of this daily parenting struggle?

The principles that you are learning in this program are principles that are fundamental to how kids learn and to how you shape and nurture behavior.  If you follow these principles, it’s as if your kids have to get it!

But keep in mind, they can only “get it” if you “get it.”  In other words, you have got to make sure that you have really mastered these principles.  Follow the principals.  Stay consistent. 

And then, you’ll “get it.”  In less than a couple of weeks, kids will be on track to an easier morning routine, with fewer hassles.  It will almost seem effortless within three to four weeks.

But if you do all that I say to do, and you follow these principles, and it doesn’t work for you, just give us a call.  You’ll get your money back.  That’s why I say, “there is no risk here.”

"My kindergartener now gets up on his own, gets ready, eats his breakfast and there is no fighting, struggling, or ugliness.  I can’t believe what a difference three weeks has made in our lives." Maureen, mother of 3

Your mornings can go smoother!  Your kids can be happier!  The days can start off with more peace.   You can feel better about your kids.  Your kids will feel better about their days.