"Attention
Parents Frustrated With Constant Whining, Complaining And Negativity..."
"Why Not End Your
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"Hi. My name is Dr Randy Cale. As a Licensed Psychologist,
I have helped hundreds of families overcome this common struggle with
a simple, easy to use,
un-common approach. I know how nerve-wracking this can be. Trust me…I
have seen and heard it more times than you can imagine!
"Yet, within 7-10 days, your home will be calmer, happier, quieter…and your
kids will be more at peace. I can prove it…if you give me a chance to
help you. I'll show you the amazing, tested and proven formula I've used
with every type of child and situation to end constant whining and complaining
forever! And your satisfaction is 100% unconditionally guaranteed! "
Look, I understand where you are at. There
are times when your child could start whining, complaining or crying about
something…
and it could go on until they would just pass out…or at least it really feels
that way. Kids who are hooked in this learned pattern of whining, crying,
complaining and negativity…it's enough to drive you crazy. The comments could be
like any of these…
"I want thatttttttt…." or
I don't want toooooo…." or
I can'ttttttttt…." or
"I'm stupiddddddd…." or
"You're stupidddddd…." or
"I hate youuuuu…" or
"She won't play fairrrr…." or
"He took my toyyyyy…." or
"Whyyyyy??????" or
"Noooooo. I can'ttttt…."
All that wouldn't be
so bad if the whining and complaining didn't happen so often and so loud…and
with such relentless persistence. It can drive you to the edge of your sanity!
And, of course, it's very painful for a parent to hear their own child call
themselves "stupid." It breaks our hearts…and we really want to help. Many of
these whining children focus their whining and complaints on others, sometimes a
sibling, a friend, or even mom or dad. (Children who chronically whine and
complain often direct their complaints to themselves and to others…it just
depends on the situation.)
Parents who don't have a child with constant whining and complaining behaviors
often just don't seem to get how serious this is. But, you get it.
You have argued with the whining and negativity. You have pleaded with the
complaining. You have been embarrassed by the whining in a restaurant, or at the
library or the park. You know how absolutely frustrating an out of control
whining child can be! Bottom line: You have had many moments of feeling
stressed out and exhausted trying to deal with the whining voice, the negative
comments and the endless complaints. You know the stress. You get it.
I get it too. As a Licensed Psychologist who has specialized in helping parents
with their children for the past 20+ years, I've assisted hundreds and hundreds
of families overcome this problem. It is a very real … and very frustrating
problem. We give our kids love, care, attention - and all the things they need
and want - and yet, they somehow still seem to find fault with everything. Even
themselves!
This seems so sad. We work hard to "do it right," and to keep them on track for
success and happiness. We worry about their self esteem and their outlook on
life. We manage every detail of their life with as much time and attention as we
can give. We do our best, and know (in our hearts) that they really
have little to complain about! And yet they do!
TAKE DR. CALE'S WHINING TEST
Your child whines and complains almost daily (about self, others, or their
life) if not many times daily
Everything
you've tried to stop the whining,
complaining and negative attitude hasn't worked, or it only works for a
few days.
You
usually don't mention to others how much time you spend trying to stop
whining behaviors
You
find yourself constantly trying to correct what your child says about
himself or herself, or others such as "no, you're not stupid" or "Just
ignore your sister's comment."
Some
things you've tried may seem to work for a while, but then the whining and
complaining starts up again
You
sometimes worry that your child may have self esteem issues and/or an
emotional problem
You
feel exhausted from the frustration of
trying to stop your child from complaining and whining
You
really feel that you don't know how to
solve the whining, complaining and negative
comments your child frequently makes, and
you feel you need HELP NOW.
Secret Ultimate Test Question of
Whether You Must Get Help Now:
You
have already started to shape your decisions, your choices, and your daily
routines around the whining and complaining you anticipate, and thus your
true values and desires are compromised daily JUST to avoid the pain and
struggle of the whining child!
If you answered "yes" to at least several of the above situations, you
likely want to get help for this problem. But, it doesn't mean your
child isn't normal or that you're a bad parent. It means that the pattern of
whining and negativity must be changed, or life is going to get worse…not
better.
The good news is, the principles you'll learn in my Wipe Out The Whining
Program will teach you to solve the whining problem by shifting your focus.
You have tried to talk, negotiate, plead, argue and (sometimes…perhaps) even
yell at the whining. It doesn't go away…well…except for a few moments. (The
problem: Your focus is in the wrong direction, and I have got the secret that
will pull you out of this negative pattern…quickly!)
The principles I teach you in this program have been tested, refined and
proven to work for every type of child (ADD and strong-willed included, of
course!), every type of personality (sensitive kids to shy kids to angry kids),
and every type of parent. Even in divorce situations, where your influence may
be less, you will see results! Remember: The Wipe Out The Whining Program
has worked for the hundreds and hundreds of families I've worked with in my more
than 20 years or specializing in child psychology.
I've found that when parents are seeking answers about whining issues, it's
rarely the run of the mill type of whining that we see in every home. The
"normal stuff"…we as parents can usually handle. (However, my program works
great to make certain the "normal stuff" doesn't turn into a bigger issue. You
know the old saying, "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure." It's as
true with your whining child as it is anywhere else in life.)
However, having said that, the type of whining and complaining behaviors that
makes us feel worried, fed-up and frustrated as parents is usually in our face
day in and day out. We used to feel we could handle it, but now we seldom feel
we can handle it well.
They might whine about stopping at fast food, and won't stop until you do.
They might whine about their sibling, and won't stop until you intervene.
They might whine about their food, and won't stop until you fix something
different.
They might whine about their homework, and won't stop until you guide them
through it. And when you do, they whine and complain about the way you
help them!
They might whine about their teacher, complain about their coach, or say
negative things about mom and dad.
They might just seem to whine about everything they have, and everything they
don't have. When they do get they thing they have begged, pleaded and
whined about…you find they are now whining about IT two weeks later.
You can't win!
We tend to feel especially worried when our children complain "I hate myself.
I don't know how to do that. I'm stupid." Many of us, with our children's best
interest at heart, try to get our children to see that no, they aren't stupid.
We try to comfort them, and convince them otherwise. This is something almost
every loving parent does…and it's a real problem!
Why? Because all of your efforts to make it better…are likely making it
worse! In my Wipe Out The Whining Program, you will learn why this is just a
huge mistake.
Here are…
17 Common Parent Mistakes (that actually make things worse…not better!)
Do You Make These Mistakes?
(If so, remember that most of us do!)
But there is a better plan!
Trying To Tell Them
Constantly That They Aren't Stupid
Correcting Your
Children That They Don't Really Hate You
Mimicking Your
Child's Whining
Getting Your Child
To Look You In The Eye
Taking Away
Something They Look Forward To
Yelling at Them
Spanking, or
threatening them
Refusing to Give
Them What They Want
Giving Them What
They Want
Arguing
Fighting With Them
To GO to Time Out
Calling Their
Father, Mother Or Grandparent to Reprimand
Trying To Soothe
Them
Listening To A
Neighbor Who Really Didn't Have The Same Level Of Difficulty
Asking Most
Psychologist (Who Are Not Parenting Experts)
Reading A Book
Written By a Mom or Dad Who Self-Proclaim To Be Parenting Experts
Finding 37
Different Opinions Online…All Different and Confusing
So
stop the insanity.
As you've probably learned, ending whining and complaining
behaviors is far from easy. Those who say it's easy most likely don't have the
same problem.
You know that trying to talk whiny children out of their negativity doesn't
work. Neither does arguing with them, or the countless other things that try to
force the solution. Some things, such as taking a toy away when they're
complaining, may work temporarily, but not in the long term. All of these
methods don't work because:
The Truth That's
Shocking To Many Parents Is That Trying to Force Any Change In Your Child's
Behavior Almost Always Results in More Problems ---- Not Better Behavior Over
Time!
When you keep giving your attention to the whining and
complaining, and trying make certain your child "gets it"…then you are barking
up the wrong tree!
Don't get me wrong. We have all make this mistake.
It's just a more devastating, joy-robbing mistake when you are dealing with a
chronic negative pattern.
We just can't force a change. We can teach a child to change…but we can't force
it.
And teaching…guess what…it requires the opportunity for your child to learn.
Child Psychologist Insider Secret: "You are
thinking your child should learn to stop whining because it's in your
interest NOT to have to hear that stuff anymore, and you can't stand the
thought that they say such ugly things to themselves and others. What you
child has to learn is that… it's their interest to stop whining and
complaining…and that their life will be better without it."
I show you how to do this quickly and with as little
distress as possible on my Wipe Out The Whining audio program. There are some
very specific, very well tested and proven approaches that take the guesswork
out of this. You get every one of those on the program.
Children Also Whine And Complain…When We Whine And Complain
When we whine about the weather, complain about the long
line ups at the grocery store or call ourselves or our spouse stupid for
forgetting to take the trash out, our children learn from us.
Child Psychologist Insider Secret #2: "Parents
whine. I whine. You whine. It is very unlikely that you whine as much as
your child, but let's face it…we all whine. If you pay close attention,
you may find yourself "whining" to your child, or your partner, or to
grandparents…about your child. The secret is to make sure you model what
you want from your children…especially the one who whines and complains."
"In 10 Days From Now, Can You Imagine What It Will Be Like to Rarely, If Ever
Again, Listen to That Whining, Complaining, Unhappy Voice? Can You Visualize How
Much Happier Your Child Will Be When They "Give Up" That Negative, Whining
Outlook on Life…Because You Show Them How To Let Go…With Ease?"
Randy L. Cale, PhD
Child Psychologist
& Parenting Expert
Still Waiting To Decide That This Is For You? I understand
that some of you may be skeptical…I am trying to sell you this solution, but I
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2)
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3)
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4)
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5)
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6)
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used to nurture a healthier way of responding…
7)
You discover how you have worked too hard trying to solve things for them, and
why this has destroyed your hard work to make things better.
8)
I teach you remarkably simple ways to control your
environment so that your focus shifts away from your child in these intense
moments. You feel more in control by focusing on what you can control!
9)
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child…even while they are learning.
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children who learned to stop all the whining and complaining.
But, just in case you try the WIPE OUT THE WHINING PROGRAM and aren't
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-- WITH THIS GUARANTEE YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE EXCEPT YOUR CHILD'S WHINING AND
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These detailed, informative articles cover a wide range of parenting subjects
and are published in quality newspapers, newsletters and magazines. You learn
tips and advice on…
How to put consistency in your parenting
How Mom and Dad can be on the same page as parents
How to foster respect between parents and teens
How showering your kids with words of praise can backfire
How stressful daily routines can flow more smoothly
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stops whining, tantrums and negativity
gets kids to bed on time
cures picky eaters
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This is an amazing value as direct consultation with a
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SPECIAL BONUS GIFT -
FREE
PARENTING E-BOOK! (included in options 1 and 2)
*You get a jam-packed e-book that contains a collection of 23 of Dr. Cale's
published parenting articles such as "Three Core Secrets To Nurturing Your
Child" and "Take Control Of Your Home…Not Your Kids."
These detailed, informative articles cover a wide range of parenting subjects
and are published in quality newspapers, newsletters and magazines. You learn
tips and advice on…
How to put consistency in your parenting
How Mom and Dad can be on the same page as parents
How to foster respect between parents and teens
How showering your kids with words of praise can backfire
How stressful daily routines can flow more smoothly
You really can end your frustration and worries over your child's negative
remarks, whining voice and complaining attitude. You just need to do something
that works…not just for a few days…but a permanent solution that calms and
brings more peace to your child!
If whatever you've tried in the past to get your child to stop whining and
complaining always leads back to your child whining and complaining even more,
you need what has worked for hundreds of parents in your frustrating, exhausting
situation…you need the Wipe Out The Whining Program. It works! And I stand
behind it with my 100% unconditional money back guarantee.
Randy L. Cale, PhD
Child Psychologist
& Parenting Expert
P.S.
- The Wipe Out The Whining Program has brought relief to hundreds of
parents and ended their constant exhaustion and worry over their child's
excessive whining and complaining behaviors because the program really works to
stop the whining and complaining!
P.P.S.-
If you follow the clear plan in the
Wipe Out The Whining Program, your
family can be a success story too! Remember that you're completely covered by my
guarantee - if you're not happy with the program for any reason, simply return
the program to receive a full refund. No questions asked!
P.P.P.S. - If you are dealing with a whining, complaining child, and want
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